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Self compassion training frees the suffering
mind and energizes it. Your mind stops punishing you unremittingly
for your mistakes and accepts the truth that
you are doing the best you can. You learn to react with kindness
rather than harsh self-judgment towards your own weaknesses and
faults. Compassion training itself originated as a Buddhist
practice, where meditation techniques enabled practitioners to
consciously switch from emotions such as painful empathy to those of
positive love. It converts the distress of a practitioner about
existential suffering into calm and active energy.
Paramedical
staff are reported to have improved their services through self
compassion training. Many of these workers, who involuntarily share
the pain of their patients on a continual basis, tend to suffer a
"burnout," often leading to callous indifference. The
training was reported to help such staff to both share the pain of
the victims and also to become positive and energetic towards its
alleviation.
Self Compassion Training
Can "Compassion" Be Defined Differently?
Historically, the word
"compassion." has a different meaning for the Buddhists.
It is defined by the dictionary as
"sympathetic pity and concern for the sufferings or misfortunes
of others." Such compassion often causes a "burnout,"
because of your inability to alleviate the pain of, say, an orphan in
a distant city. According to the Buddhists, compassion is a feeling
of "active kindness towards others." Their emphasis
shifts from passive suffering to a diligent sense of kindness towards
the victims. By switching mental states, their experience of
compassion gains energy without necessarily helping the victims.
"Compassion could benefit the persons who felt it by protecting
them against burnout, but may also
benefit others by increasing helping behavior."
Self Compassion Training
Can Emotions Be Stilled?
The
Buddhist training profits from the propensity of the nervous system
to switch viewpoints swiftly by recognizing and responding to
patterns. The realization, that a snake among the bushes is only a
garden hose, quiets a person's initial surge of anxiety. The sudden
blip of fear is the outcome of a multistage recognition and response
process by the mind. It tales just 20 ms for the amygdala to
recognize the broad outlines of the garden hose, relate it to a snake
and to trigger emotion signals. These trigger a knot in the stomach,
or a tension in the neck. Within the next 350 ms, the recognition
regions evaluate and identify the hose and inform the prefrontal
regions. Those regions make the final judgment and inhibit the
amygdala fear signals. The Buddhists exploit this phenomenon. They
learn to focus the attention of the prefrontal recognition regions on
needless emotions to still them.
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Does Attention Focus Controls Thoughts?
During meditation, conscious
breathing is controlled by the will of the individual and is
initiated by the prefrontal regions of the brain. During such
breathing, the practitioner becomes able to non-judgmentally accept
the thoughts, emotions and sensations that arise. During the periods
of focused breathing, the Buddhist training directs prefrontal
attention on the individual stages of the recognition process.
This practice enables attention to control thought processes. At
first, the mind wanders, uncontrolled, from thought to thought.
Repeatedly bringing thoughts back to breathing trains the attention
regions to stop more and more of the intruding thought processes.
In the garden hose case, there is perception, initial
recognition, emotional response, secondary recognition and final
response. The initial 20 ms recognition process is too fast for
conscious awareness. Fear is an intruding emotion, which strikes
before you know it. But, the prefrontal regions can gradually learn
to identify the subsequent knot in the stomach as the symptom of
fear. Such physical symptoms actually initiate drives. The knot
sets off a drive to identify the reasons for fear. As the drive
uncovers more reasons for fear, the emotion becomes stronger.
But,
recognition of the fear symptom by the prefrontal regions identifies
the cause for continuing fear as a mere physical symptom and shuts
off the drive. With practice, those regions come to perceive most
emotion signals as false alarms and still them. This enables the
practitioner to enjoy mere perception, free of the involuntary
emotional interruptions. Once a person learns to stop intruding
thoughts, he shifts focus to attracting and permitting desirable
thoughts to stay.
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Does Empathy Lead To Burnout?
A major cause of troubling emotions are
shared feelings and emotions, enabled by evolutionary development.
The ability to share feelings is a pattern recognition process,
implemented by the mirror neuron system. The system has been
observed to cause the nerve cells, which report pain to the brain, to
fire to make an individual actually experience the pain of a pinprick
on another. The system operates across a wide range of feelings and
enables people to empathize with others by sharing their feelings.
But, the physically shared experience of the pain of a patient
perturbs a visitor. Compassion training enables a practitioner to
shift the focus of his mind from experiencing the pain to the
objective of being kind to the victim. The mind switches from a
state of emotional burnout to the euphoric state of loving the
victim. The focus shifts from the pain response regions to
pleasurable motor intention regions. The shift stills pain and
brings energy and optimism to the practitioner.
Self Compassion Training
Can Self Compassion Empower Empathy?
Compassion
training has been adopted by many Western scientists, seeding
practices from Buddhist teachings. Certain breathing exercises still
troubling attacks of emotions including guilt, shame, fear and anger.
The practitioner gradually reaches a quiet observation mode. In
this mode, imagining the pain and suffering of an anguished victim
can cause distress to a practitioner. Mathiew Ricard, a greatly
respected Buddhist monk, has trained himself to experience empathy
and then switch to compassion. During MRI scans by scientists in the
US, Ricard vividly imagined the sufferings of the ill treated orphans
in Romenia, seen by him in a BBC program. While Ricard focused on
empathy, he felt distress.
He then consciously switched to
his compassionate frame of mind. The distress reduced and he felt
love and the courage to approach and console the victims. The sense
of love is normally a system response, not open to conscious control.
It is linked to the older mammalian caregiving system. Oxytocin and
vasopressin are important components of the neurochemical system that
supports vigilance and behaviors needed for guarding a partner or
territory. Vasopressin prevents the ‘shutting down' of the system
in the face of danger. Oxytocin makes it easier for a woman to
express loving feelings for her child. These activate the
orbitofrontal cortex, ventral striatum and anterior cingulate cortex
- a network associated with love and affiliation. Evidently, it is
possible to consciously switch on this network.
These
regions were activated, when Ricard switched his mind to a
compassionate state. This change in his emotional responses was
confirmed by the MRI scans. There was no change in the circumstances
of the orphans. The compassion of Mathiew Ricard could not help the
orphans in Romania. Economic development and medical sciences can
more effectively reduce suffering than the good intentions of
compassion. Compassion can improve the quality of medical care,
while medical science will actually improve medical care
itself.
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How Does The Love Emotion Impact Behavior?
Meditation training grants sufficient control of the
mind to enable a practitioner to consciously switch on the
affiliation network. The typical behavior of an individual, when
love takes control of the nervous system, is recorded in culture and
literature. The system inhibits negative emotions. It suppresses the
emotions of anger, irritability, jealousy and rudeness. The needs of
the object take priority over one's own needs. Suspicion of the
intentions of the object of love are stilled. The emotions of
vengeance and comparison are stilled, giving way to forgiveness of
past wrongs. Pleasure is not derived from put downs. Greater energy
is granted to persist in helping the loved one. The initiation of
the love network in compassion training creates a powerfully positive
attitude.
Self Compassion Training
What Is Self Compassion Training?
In the self compassion process, the practitioner
looks at herself from the outside by imagining herself as a separate
individual. Without judgment or resistance, she allows herself
mental space to be herself. She focuses on her own suffering. She
imagines the guilt she feels about a wrong judgment, which caused an
accident. Her own pangs of guilt have been largely stilled through
meditation. The frustration and the drive to escape unavoidable
guilt are further stilled. With self compassion, she is filled with
a desire to comfort and soothe herself.
Instead
of continually punishing herself for not being good enough, she
kindly accepts that she is doing the best she can. She
sees herself as just another human being, who made a mistake. Her
mind has switched from feeling the pain to a calm sense of care and
concern. The saga of life is accepted and is accompanied by a sense
of love and kindness towards her human self. Training
can enable people to respond with kindness rather than harsh
self-judgment towards their own weaknesses and faults.
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Is Self Compassion Training Useful?
Self
compassion does not bypass pain, but accepts it as a part of life. It
is not false pride, since there is acceptance that everybody can make
mistakes. It is not a process of judging others. It is not a
complacent view, but an active, helpful one. Self compassion grants
the courage and energy needed to face the challenges of life. It is
not self indulgent - it focuses on the longer term rather than on
short term gratification. It is not self pity, since our failings
are acknowledged and accepted.
Self compassion fulfils an innate desire to be
free from suffering. Research literature suggests that greater self-
compassion is linked to less anxiety and depression. Self compassion
may reduce self-evaluative anxiety because the light of shared human
experience makes weaknesses feel less threatening. Reduced
rumination is said to be one of the key benefits of self compassion.